i dont think it matters how much money you spend on money as long as its with the right person. I know it sounds like a cliche' but its true, you could have this big fancy wedding and it mean nothing if you're divorced in 2 years. I'm not saying don't splash out the cash and obviously we cannot predict divorces, but you could put that money towards something that will benefit you long term. As long as you love someone, thats what matters really