I found this very useful and love how it was delivered, so well done! ..im due to get wed in a couple of months and totally understand the pressure that comes with it all. Me and my partner are happy and would like a nice small event that's financially manageable, but the added pressure and demands of family members to produce a lavish event is difficult. I believe you should make it nice as it is a special day but at the same time avoid any financial problems that only the two of you will have to deal with later on. I don't get swayed by social media and even the thought of hiring an army tank for my groom to arrive on our big day makes me cringe! (check it on youtube lol) but most people are just out doing each other. At the same time I'm not just settling for less as well :)