I’d just like to say that this is a a really good podcast and I’m glad someone is looking into the nature of African parenting. As a fellow Nigerian, I have come to appreciate the rules put in place in regards to dating. This hasn’t always been the case growing up but I have noticed the benefit of prioritising and focus on your main goal which in most cases is to develop yourself as a person whether it be professionally or education wise. However, being secretive is of no benefit as parents are more likely to have been in similar situation personally or by association, therefore I believe you should always tell your parents regardless, Overall, I feel like African parents should adopt a more open and non-judgemental approach to parenting as it helps build relationships between them and their children and allows for clarification on certain topics. It also reduces preventable incidences where a parental input might have saved the child from getting into situations that might be detrimental to their health and well-being.